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  • in reply to: Dealing with a lying coworker #380109
    Alexander
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    You are right,i need to be better at confronting when things like this happens.

    And i need to find a way of confronting things with calm,when i was young i confronted things with pure anger,and thats why ive toned myself down with age,feeling fear that i will confront people the wrong way.

    thanks for the helpful advice.

    in reply to: Dealing with a lying coworker #380089
    Alexander
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    Hi Anita

    Thank you for the response

    I’ve tried talking to our boss about other things ive been concerned with,problem is that we are employed on a unit with no knowledge of our field so we are just a small group of three people with that specialised technical knowledge.The whole organisation is a bit of a mess since noone in charge knows what we are doing basicly.

    You are right i need to stop thinking about him,most of the stuff happened in the past and probably my anger stems from the fact that i didnt confront him the way i should have.

    We’ve been very close working just him and me so it’s become more complicated.He is 10 years younger than me so i’ve taken on the role of a big brother.I suspect that he might suffer from ADD and he can get depressed and really dark on and off.

    My own emotions are very split in this situation knowing about his own suffering and struggle to keep up with the quality with work.

    English is not my native language so excuse for any misspellings.

     

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