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    Hello peaceful warriors ….your conversation is very interesting πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ I am wondering what I usually do in this kind of situation- I use to give extreme reactions and become cynical but with time and more experiences I realized sometimes we judge too quickly and assume too much , now I don’t jump on any opinions quickly and I take time to get to know that person – its an investment I know but it’s better to be open to experiences and real people in life rather than avoiding doing things which we are not good at – like socializing with real people for example – it’s a skill and it comes with time!

    As far as emotional truth goes, you either have to be 100% authentic with you own self which takes a lot of efforts and honesty in order to be that intuitive – I usually go with an open mind and let people revel who they are and it’s not very hard to see in certain short time span! Hope this helps πŸ™‚ Not to be friends with someone is different than avoiding things we are not good at πŸ™‚ so we need to be honest with ourselves and take it from there! Otherwise everyone has a freedom to be happy and not to be friends with someone they don’t like πŸ™‚

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    Hello nacm86, I am happy to hear about your self exploration journey – I have been in the same situation for last couple of years and I had 2 long term serious relationships where I realized I was attracting the same type of guys and my relationship patterns were also similar – they both lasted for about 2 years or more and finally I was shaken from a dream state. I had to think about what I was doing and what I was looking for πŸ™‚

    In my experience, before we start looking for a soulmate – its important to connect with your own soul. We have to love and nurture ourselves first and become fearless and content and strong that we are good enough for ourselves πŸ™‚ Once you reach to that level where you are thriving in your life – you are smiling from your lungs – right kind of people will start coming into your life – once you raise the vibrations of your own life state ( I am sure you understand what I mean! since you are a spiritual person too!!) It has helped me a lot and now I see, how much I have transformed and how much my relationships have changed! In my experience, when we don’t look for it – that’s when it shows up and I took myself on dates plenty of times in last 6 months – for a movie and for dinners or even for beach walks πŸ™‚ ! I know it sounds crazy but that’s when you know how you want to be treated in your relationships! I didn’t date ME πŸ™‚ and now all I attract is good people who also want to contribute and uplift me πŸ™‚ Before it wasn’t there cause I guess my belief was wrong somewhere that I have to give a lot of love or prove certain things in certain ways in a relationship to receive love from the other person….we all know it but the root cause might be something different – check your vibration and check where your relationship with yourself is and take it from there!

    Hope this helps πŸ™‚

    #83987
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    Hey there!! I have heard something similar in the past πŸ™‚ All I can say is – it hurts only if you love him more than yourself πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ You love yourself more than the need of the relationship or to keep him into your life! I have been there before, believe me – once you learn the lesson and empower yourself πŸ™‚ you will attract only the best of people in your life πŸ™‚ so take it from there and I would also suggest start doing something which you really enjoy doing! Dancing or painting πŸ™‚ get back on track and finally be professional at work! You are there to make a career and tell yourself you deserve the best! Next time, don’t give too much πŸ™‚ and don’t lose yourself in a relationship – this is what I learnt from my relationships that didn’t work! Hope this helps!!take care

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