Thanks for the reply.  Didn’t have full knowledge of all that took place prior to marriage.  It was of late I found all just how extensive the extracurricular activities were.  She says she loves me.  She also says she doesn’t need me.  Everything she needs she has.  More later.

We never discussed deletion.  It wasn’t until this latest text msg from him dis I notice his name wasn’t in her phone.  So she deleted him very late in the game. She did have a turtle in the hay in 2014.  So much for trust and not sharing.  She does not know that I am aware of her cheating.