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May 5, 2017 at 2:14 pm #148193priya bhardwajParticipant
Hi Andrea
You fear uncertainty and whole anxiety based issue is based on fear of unknown.
Meditation , yoga and anything else can’t help you 100 percent that’s fact .
Anxiety is very important emotion and some part of it has to be there in you but not to an extent that it will make your life miserable .
You can manage your anxiety
First by being comfortable with uncertainty which can be difficult I know. Anxious people can never accept unknown future .
So second what you can do is accept your condition, your unreasonable thoughts. Just let them be there. When you stop trying to change a thought that’s when they leave .
I should be like…your anxious mind will tell
Your boss will sue you and you say May be he will . By doing so you just take the power from that anxious thought.
I know what I’m saying is not easy and May be I’m not Good in making you understand .
I would recommend you to read a book “at last a life “by Paul David or his blog anxiety no more UK.
I can assure you, after reading this book you will be at far more better place.
It will help you to manage your anxiety and lead a normal life.
Niklo
April 25, 2017 at 12:47 am #146619priya bhardwajParticipantHello Anita
Thank you for your quick reply.
Its not any specific thought. It’s thinking about everything. Sometime some thoughts which makes me anxious and I dwell on this for hours and sometimes pleasant day dreaming . It’s a sort of procrastination. The moment the read few lines I get extremely gratified and take a break which is obviously longer than I intended
Most of people I met in life , tells me I’m extremely intelligent but it gives me some sort of identity crisis because my intelligence doesn’t have a proof of any result. So may be I’m just dumb with this smart facade .
It’s not like that I don’t want to achieve my aim for what I’m studying. Impact that is the only thing I want to do in life . And once I get in I think I will be able to do the justice to job. I have many plans to be in a influential position and help people.
But I just don’t seem to break the barrier and work hard day and night to achieve my aim .
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