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    priya bhardwaj
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    Hi Andrea

    You fear uncertainty and whole anxiety based issue is based on fear of unknown.

    Meditation , yoga and anything else can’t help  you 100 percent  that’s fact .

    Anxiety is very important emotion and some part of it has to be there in you but not to an extent that it will make your life miserable .

    You can manage your anxiety

    First by being comfortable with uncertainty which can be difficult I know.  Anxious people can never accept unknown future .

    So second what you can do is accept your condition,  your unreasonable  thoughts.  Just let them be there.  When you stop trying to change a thought that’s when they leave .

    I should be like…your anxious mind will tell

    Your boss will sue you and you say May be he will . By doing so you just take the power from that anxious thought.

    I know what I’m saying is not easy and May be I’m not Good in making you understand .

    I would recommend you to read a book “at last a life “by Paul David or his blog anxiety no more UK.

    I can assure you, after reading this book you will be at far more better place.

    It will help you to manage your anxiety and lead a normal life.

     

    Niklo

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    priya bhardwaj
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    Hello Anita

    Thank you for your quick reply.

    Its not any specific thought.  It’s thinking about everything.  Sometime some thoughts which makes me anxious and I dwell on this for hours and sometimes pleasant day dreaming . It’s a sort of procrastination.  The moment the read few lines I get extremely  gratified and take a break which is obviously longer than I intended

    Most of people I met in life , tells me I’m extremely intelligent but it gives me some sort of identity crisis because my intelligence doesn’t have a proof of any result.  So may be I’m just dumb with this smart facade .

    It’s not like that I don’t want to achieve my aim for what I’m studying.  Impact that is the only thing I want to do in life . And once I get in I think I will be able to do the justice to job. I have many plans to be in a influential position and help people.

    But I just don’t seem to break the barrier and work hard day and night to achieve my aim .

     

     

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