Hii,

You have got a chance to find out how strong you are and one day you will definitely thank for this experience which you have got.

For now, you have to keep things simple. Current situation is. Someone who had given you enough love, is not giving you now and it is causing you enough frustration and pain. Here someone trying to use your feelings knowingly or unknowingly and you are not able to express how painful it is since you have declared break up.

What you have to do is stop contacting him even if he begs for you? Remember and accept that you had given enough chance and this is not going to work even if you would give one more chance. It will be painful but gradually your pain would go and you would become stronger.

Focus on other things like your hobbies, music, dance, painting whatever it is. Never compromise your values and/or allow anyone to use the situation. It will be painful initially, but gradually your pain would go and you would become stronger and will transform you to a better human being. Also better not to commit another relation all of a sudden, because you will not be truly loving your partner you will be trying to find a replacement or to fill the gap. Instead you can use this pain to transform you into a person you want, to chase a dream, to find out how capable you/we are, how precious this life is.

Once you had become stronger, this will help you take tougher decision, once you had become tougher, graceful and bold others will get attracted to you, be patient, use your inner voice to choose your partner and you would realize everything is part of life these experience worth…