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    Riley
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    I asked her many times, and she told me that she has been diagnosed bipolar and had always psychological problems. As a response to that I suggested her to help her find a psychotherapist, and she appreciated it. But her contact to the therapist, which I know as a very kind person, was very unpleasant. She sent me all screenshots of their messages and said that the therapist was not sensitive enough in their wording and she felt traumatized. (From my point of view she surely overreacted). After sending me the screenshots she started to discuss and argue with me why this therapist is an a””hole. My only answer was “sorry if you felt so, but maybe you should try to speak to them personally not via email chat, but of course only if you feel comfortable”. As I know she didn’t met the therapist. And from that time on I felt very unease since I tried to help her but from her response I felt being accused of providing her with a wrong person. From there i decided to stay out from this topic, since I don’t want again to have a situation like this again. I felt very bad and used after that.

    #440103
    Riley
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    i had tried to talk to her about this (setting private boundaries). I asked her after she told me stories that I didn’t want to her (very private Stories from her friend) “why do you tell me this? I don’t really want to know this details honestly” she was saying “I think it is ok to tell that”. Recently I had a similar conversation with her. She wrote me a message about our mutual friend and told me what he told her about me (in this conversation she told him that she doesn’t want to date him), and I felt very discomforted, since I didn’t want to talk about him in this way and since I had a feeling that the things the he told her about how he feels about me were his private info. I wrote her “sorry, but I don’t think that this details are having something to do with me”. She said, again “I felt like that was normal to tell you that”. And she is ghosting me after that.

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