Hi Eva,

Oh my God I’m going through what sounds like the exact same thing.  Would be nice to just know the truth from him instead of getting ‘It’s nothing to do with you, it’s me.’  Basically he went back to his ex.  And yes professed his love for me prior to that, texted me nonstop, and in retrospect I suspected the whole love bombing thing as one of his ‘tactics’ to get closer to me.  I think basically I was a good distraction in his life when what he really wanted was to patch things up with his ex.  All of a sudden he was gone.  No more texts, no phone calls, no ‘i love yous.”  And like you I was very cautious at first then his attention to me drew me in like a moth to a flame.  I was seduced. and blissfully unaware until one day poof, gone.  I’ve been heartbroken since (just happened a month ago).  I so feel your pain, girl.  I’m so sorry you’ve gone through this too!!!!