Hi
This isn’t really advice or help but I just wanted you to know you’ve been heard. I do know that an awful lot of people feel this way and try so hard to let it go, to stop it eating them up and potentially wrecking their relationship. Just being told that it’s in the past, and that your partner has chosen to be with you doesn’t work for some.Perhaps there is someone out there with more insight and experience who can shed some light upon this and how to move forward.
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