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ScottParticipant
Anita
Thank you very much for listening to my problem i really appreciate it, you have given me a lot to think about and you are right it is up to me to decide not anyone else. You are also right that i need to talk to her and clear the air. I do forgive her because i understand that no one is perfect in this world and we all make mistakes and if it does end then i at least have a clear mind and am happy that i wasn’t bitter and angry towards anyone, if that makes sense.
Again i like to thank you as this has helped because i always find it interesting to see what others think outside of the circle.
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ScottParticipantAnita
Yes i agree with you that really i haven’t done anything wrong as she could have said no anytime, and i agree that i do sometimes take the blame to keep the peace when i know i wasn’t wrong,
she has said sorry and it wasn’t her intention to use me she claims and i do believe her because i dont want to feel any anger or guilt. am i looking for excuses so our friendship can go on i dont know.
what i dont get and i am sorry for rambling but i guess i am afraid to tell my family as i dont want them to think i was trying to break something up but the thing i dont get is why all the sudden this occurred out of the blue when i haven’t spoken about my feelings in a long time to her we were just friends.
And can i ask you honestly do you think we can be friends or do you think you could be friends with someone in the future if someone done that to you. i know i want to but i dont know if i would come off a mug if that makes sense. what should i do know. im so confused
Kind Regards
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