Dear Anita:

In some ways that article does speak to me, most of my anxiety and depression is most likely linked to the environment I was raised in. I think you have made me see that in order for me to ever have a good relationship I am going to have to do some healing that I did not even know I needed.

Thank you

Johanna

Sorry for being missing for a while I am still trying to clear my head, the current situation is as such I am still talking to her but we are not together and I do not see a future for us.

To answer some questions:

We never met for a number of reasons first it was COVID with it’s flying restrictions and once that was over she had to go to a different country for work.

I won’t lie virtual-togetherness really is no where near as good as actually being together.

And I think my empathy for her is the reason I am still talking to her.