Hi Eliana,

Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts.

It is true that we were dependent on each other. For the first few months he was the one who was “infatuated”, it is the word he used when we talked 6 months ago. At the time I had a serious boyfriend, which he knew, and I clearly told him I liked him just as a friend. And then over time I started feeling like I needed him too due to the amount of things that we shared.

What I find difficult is that 1. He promised me that he would always be honest with me (I asked him a couple of months before he told me about the other girl, and he denied), and 2. He was still being handsy with me and for example, inviting me dinner while he was seing the other girl in secret. I kind of feel like he was playing with me during that time.

I think I already know what he wants to talk about and I am wondering if there is anything at all for us to fix.

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