Hi. Some thoughts to challenge you :

1. You’re not JUST friends. The intention was to have an intimate relationship.

2. This is triggering hurt feelings from your previous relationship. Listen to that.

3. Are you not walking away because this is the closest you’ve had to a relationship in a couple of years?

4. You already know what you deserve: A person who is on the same page as you. To stick around to support her is putting you in a vulnerable position just waiting to get hurt.

5. YOU said it best: “i feel like it is at an expense of my emotional wellbeing.”