SR,
I married a narcissistic sociopath. It was a nightmare, to say the least. I, too, was fearful of running into that monster. He was an emotional, soul-sucking vampire. I say “was” because I happily found out that he drank and drugged himself to death…leaving behind a path of destruction that included numerous women, church pastors, doctors that he scammed, and more. Thank G*d he’s not on this planet to destroy another life. He was SO successful and proud of that! Glad you’re feeling better.