I’ve felt the same way lately. I’ve been on the dating site for about 6mos and I’ve met several men, and nothing lasted longer. I started feeling that the one I am looking for is not on this dating site. Like you said, I was very excited, bubbly, and happy while dating several men, but at the same time, I was thinking to myself “what is this? what am I doing? this is not even a relationsihp..it’s not a friendship or boyfreind/girlfriend relationsihp” I became very confused myself about what I am trying to achieve. Then, I realized that I do not even know what I want. I do not think I want a long term relationship.. but at the same time I do not want this petty meaningless hang-out relationship. Finally, I decided to remove myself from the dating site, focus on myself, and learn what I really want. I truely believe in destiny. Also, I think there is the one… but then I understand I might not meet him in this world. All I can do is to strive to be a better person today than I was yesterday for myself and him whom hopefully I will meet one day.

Dating can be very exciting, but I figure that it gets exhusting. I will say be patient. When time is right, she will magically show up. 🙂