Okay I realize now I’m in the wrong place to get advice on how to get her back, but a few things first. I’m not depressed, I’m still living my life and hanging out with friends, I’m sad and that’s only natural. Also what’s important is I didn’t go to her and say I liked her, she came to me and admitted She liked me. Plus she was at least semi-willing to break up with this guy. And when I said I was picky I never meant by how beautiful they are(I can see how it sounds that way). I liked her not only because she is beautiful(it is a factor) but also because she’s the first that I actually connected with. So I will continue towards trying to get her back and if it doesn’t work then it doesn’t work, it’s as simple as that. But in my view doing nothing to get her back shows you really don’t care at all, and don’t really want it. I’d always look back in my life and regret not trying even if doesn’t work, and I’d prefer not to live with that kind of regret. I’ll keep you posted if anything significant happens, thank you for your advice.

Well no offense but I’m pretty sure it’s because he’s the one my girlfriend cheated on me with…
Also I am very thankful for all the advice your giving me, but I didn’t come here to come to peace with my emotions. I have been nice and non judging my whole life and now when it counted this is where I landed, so evidently being passive and accepting isn’t always the answer to these things. I don’t care for my current situation and I will do everything possible on my front to change things to the way I want them until whatever I do doesn’t matter, I just need to know the best way to do that. In other words no more mr nice guy about whatever happens to me, I will not just accept things the way they are.

Looking back I see how it may seem quite irresponsible of her parents, and I have no idea what they were thinking but I have met them and they are very nice people, who she doesn’t seem to have any real problem with thrn. I mean I know she fights with her mom, but no more than I do myself and I mean that’s natural, we’re teenagers. She told me all that they did was make out on the trip, and for some reason I believe it(maybe because I want too). But my point she’s not exactly the poster child of bad parenting. Also not sure if this is relevant, we both really wanted to get into this one college(not sure about her anymore) and if I assume we both go I don’t want to be with her just because the other guy is gone.