Noelle
I am going thru a similar situation as far as my boyfriend making life decisions without talking to me about them. These choices he had made have effected my life…twice. This last time is is “possible” move 700 miles away to help his mother. I applaud him in his wanting to help his mother! But like someone said….look to see his deeper motivation that your boyfriend made this decision. Now, grieve what you must but please take care of YOU! Focus on you. Focus on your serenity. Once “settled” as someone has already mentioned, take your time to decide if you can live with a man who makes major life decisions without talking to you. This will be a process. BE PATIENT with yourself. Like you, I am ready to know the future. The times are such that we must embrace the unknown as never before…trust. Indeed, you are NEVER alone. Great Spirit/God always has positive focus on YOU!

Here I am giving this advice because this is all I can do right now and it helps me and maybe it will help you. We are not alone is these situations, you and I. My boyfriend left just 2 days ago for an unknown amount of time saying to some he was moving back, saying to others he might be back in 2 weeks, 2 months. And he did not ask me to come along. I would go. I can not control other people. Hopefully full acceptance will come to you on this matter. Tiny Buddha has a post about long distance relationships that is most positive and uplifting. I wish the very best for you.