Dear Who, Snails, & Jack, Thank you all so much for your kind words and thoughts. I truly appreciate it! Just to clear things up the second relationship was not an abusive one. I need to think a bit before I respond more in depth but I wanted to thank you all for your responses! 🙂
Okay, well, there seems to be too much in my history but I will try to summarize what I can. I am the youngest of six siblings. I learned of ….sorry – I have to step away for a few hours!!! Thanks so much for taking the time!!
I was not alone long enough to stay indepedendent after my first divorce before someone came along and picked up my broken pieces, another lesson learned. So maybe yes, I was on my own for about a year but not nearly enough time!
I might of ended that too quickly so to shorten my writing…I don’t think I ever was-independent. Always wanted to be, always felt I had it in me, always felt like I should be, always pretended, always tried.
I found this website and thought I’d give it a shot because I like the encompassment of community with positive feedback and encouragement. With that said, I appreciate all the love that comes my way!