I feel I need to write down for every heartbroken girl in this situation. Even I respect his culture and his religion, we are never going to be on the same page. No matter how hard we love each other the muslim culture, background, including the polygamy is against our culture in Europe. How many arranged marriage we have amongst us in Europe? Not many. For them is still happens everyday and it’s normal. If they go against it they could be disowned. Would you wish the person you love to be disowned by his family? I wouldn’t. My love is so deep and unconditional, I cannot be selfish. I want him to be happy even if I am not part of his life anymore. I learned from my heartbreak I will never be with a Muslim again because I cannot win. Not because I discriminate, I respect all religions and colours in this world. It’s because their and our culture water and fire. Never goes well together. You can waste years of your life loving that person but at the end of the day you will lose the fight. He still goes home to his wife and children and you only a mistress of him nothing else. Unless you can accept the polygamy….the choice is yours.