Hi Anita,

Thank you for replying. She was fine for an year after marriage and then we moved abroad (Singapore) where she became used to the lifestyle there. When I lost my job she kept pestering me to try for a job and didn’t want to come back (I live in a “Developing” country). She is majorly pissed off that we had to come back home after almost 3 years abroad as she liked the lifestyle there.

I wasn’t able to concentrate on my job hunt as we came back only 2 months back and then the Corona crisis worsened where I live. I am not in the frame of mind to pretend everything is fine and carry on with my job search but she insists that I get a job ASAP (Despite her being Corona Positive herself at this moment). I cannot get my head around what she wants and why she is after me getting a Job ASAP even before she recovers and spends time with me and our kid.

I have now learnt my lesson and will give all my energy towards finding a job instead of spending time with family.
I feel like I am losing my connection with her due to her behavior and will for the rest of my life just commit to being a workaholic and providing for my family. I will make my work my refuge so that I don’t have to spend much time with my wife.

Sorry for the rant but I am feeling helpless about my situation.