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  • March 26, 2016 at 11:44 am in reply to: Difficult and Non-Compassionate Mother #100160
    Tugalie
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    Id still have to have the interview for it, im not sure if i qualify because of the funding needed. You need to qualify for government assistance. The wait list is probably 2-4 years but at least it gives me something to hope for and to try to hold out until then.

    My worker does believe that she is more than just your “average angry and moody mom” and that moving out would be the best option for me as well.

    Keeping touch with you has been nice, its nice to talk to someone that has been in the same situation

    March 21, 2016 at 4:25 pm in reply to: Difficult and Non-Compassionate Mother #99756
    Tugalie
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    I’ve done therapy for a long time, its not covered so when i did it my mother payed for it. Which was quite a backwards thing as she then blamed me for wasting her money since i wasn’t better, that i still continued to struggle. She still brings it up sometimes too.

    Ive done CBT, I’ve read about DBT. I never did much for that, i don’t mind it but it just feel like it only scratches the surface and being in such a volatile place its like waiting for wounds to heal while new ones keep forming and old opens keep opening up.

    I talked to one of my mental health workers and there is youth housing that is government paid for so i might get on a wait list for that

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    March 20, 2016 at 8:07 pm in reply to: Difficult and Non-Compassionate Mother #99626
    Tugalie
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    Thanks for the reply again Anita, yes that is right. Even though I don’t love her the way she treats me and things she says still hurt me. Id describe it like a mean stranger, they make snide comment and it still hurts but you’re able to make it bounce off you with the reasoning that they are a stranger and it’s just a one time thing but this is more on a consistent basis so it’s really hard to just bounce back after this happening constantly.

    My diagnosis tends to bounce around, I’ve been diagnosed with depression, adjustment disorder, borderline personality traits and anxiety

    March 20, 2016 at 1:07 pm in reply to: Difficult and Non-Compassionate Mother #99590
    Tugalie
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    Hi HippieChick – I am 22 years old, my oldest brother also lives with us. She doesn’t talk to anyone in our family, my brother has basically shut her out of his life but he’s more access to going. I can’t move out because I don’t have a job and im in school, along with the mental illness just going to school is difficult enough. If I moved out I would be homeless and broke, the financial situation has got me stuck here

    Hi Eli – thanks for sharing your story, I’m glad to hear I’m not the only who deals with this

    Hello Anita – I understanding what you are saying but that ship has sailed a long time ago, I really don’t feel love towards her or anything. She would always treat me badly and then say she loves me, after years of this of constant torment that area just ended up shutting down, that “i don’t need love if it just hurts me”. I want to move out and limit or cut all contact with her but the only way I could is to become a sex slave

    Thank you all for replying, it really means a lot to be able to talk and be heard. Thank you

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