Hi, I am going thru the same issue. Even worse, I work in at the same company. I talked to him the other day like nothing happened, but he still hasn’t touched base. I too text him today and saw I was still blocked.

I feel we are hurting from the constant rejection and disrespect.

We do need to let these guys go. You sound like a mirror of me, good career, home, etc. I have a lot of strength, but this is one area I need to get better at.

I am going to be 46 soon. No kids, never married. I was engaged 12 yrs ago, but he passed away. I have wasted time on the wrong men since.

We can be each other’s accountability if you are ready to just let go. I know it is very painful. I’m hurting as well. I miss the great conversations that me and my friend had, but it is not right to run every time it gets sticky.

Peace to you.