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  • March 7, 2018 at 3:58 am in reply to: Long distance relationship crisis #196191
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    Hi Stevart,

    thank you for your advice. Of course we do not want to stay long distance forever, but right now living in one place is not an option. Even though we live 300km away, we live in two different countries. His options of having a life are at the moment there and I need to finish my degree (a year more) here. So for at least a year, we will have to work like this. We plan regular dates, we talk every day, we skype, we basicaly do everything in order to be together. The problems come when they are more things to deal with in life and he simply hates the distance more than usual during those times. We are trying to work on it though. Hopefully we will find a way.

    March 2, 2018 at 2:22 pm in reply to: Long distance relationship crisis #195709
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    Dear Anita,

    thank you for your reply. You are right – I know now, that fighting with him because I feel unsure will do nothing good. I think a lot about how I am going to react in certain situation and also think about how he feels in order to understand him.

    I am glad he is honest with me and shared his feeling about distance with me, it is just very difficult for me to understand, when the distance was with us since the beggining. We never had such a hard time with it like now. I feel like I truly love him and therefor the distance is just one bad thing that will not stop me. That is why It is difficult for me to understand how suddenly the distance is bigger than what he feels. Even though he told me he loves me and wants to work on this, I am worried he will just give up and I am not sure how I am going to go through that pain.

    Maybe I am overthinking it too much and focusing on negative things that are not even happening right now, but sometime I just can not help myself. Do you have maybe some tip how to deal with that?

     

    (I hope you can understand what I am trying to say – english is not my first language)

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