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    WonderLast
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    Thanks for the kinds words everyone. Sometimes the nicest thing about this site is knowing that I’m not the only one running through this gamut of emotions.

    I attended the conference and it went fine. I’ll admit to letting it ‘get to me’ way more than it should’ve, but I did approach my ex, say a quick hello, and move on. I guess one thing I found out through the grapevine was that my attendance was a total non-issue to him. On one hand that really hurt, but on the other it shows how I’ve really got to let go and move on. I still have a lot of work to do, but I’m actually feeling pretty ‘OK’ about stuff this morning. Thanks again!

    #43879
    WonderLast
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    I, too, am dealing with a recent breakup, and I can relate to having physical pain. I have a tendency to focus in on tiny little things that remind me of him and replay them over and over. When I do this, I can feel my heart quicken and everything starts to hurt. I think it’s important to to take some nice deep breaths and maybe a short walk if possible. I’ve also had some luck with visualizing letting my thoughts go (sending them up in little balloons is what works for me).

    I’m sorry he’s behaving in such a way in a public fashion, but I don’t think you should take that as a reflection on your relationship. Most importantly you know what you felt, and you shouldn’t worry about how he feels now. I think it’s useful to focus on yourself. If it’s any consoloation at all, I know what you’re going through. It hurts when our daily life changes so radically and our plans for the future are taken away. I’m happy to hear you are making new plans. Today a friend said to me “things have a way of picking up,” and I think he’s right. Hang in there.

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