I just want to say your both looking for external sources of validation and creation of happiness.
your looking to others to fill you up to satisfy your needs to find you in the loneliness, no on ewants to be responsible for others, especially their feelings of happiness, it’s fleeting and does away and then there is guilt and misunderstanding and loss.

Stop looking for them to come to you to satisfy your needs for companuionship, learn to be your own companion. Go to movies by yourself, the gym, the library, start a book club at a local book shop, stop looking to tohers to find self worth and value.

Be the person people wantnto be around to emulate, love yourself and find yourself and be alright with it just being you. your lonely because you are dependant on others for approval, validation and love. you do not love and respect yourself or realize you must be a whole person onto yourself before anyone will find value in your company.
I’ll bet you admire those people who go out alone, who seem complete in themselves….

When you love yourself you have no feelings of loneliness because you are happy just as you are.
Learn to love you and be happy in your own company.. it will attract others to you like a moth to a flame.

I know ….I used to be like you.