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  • June 21, 2019 at 7:15 am in reply to: How to deal with an imminent mutually beneficial breakup? #300141
    Kristen
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    I think it’s because I’m afraid that maybe he does not feel as strongly about this as I do. I actually will probably never find out because I’m so afraid to even start this conversation with him. I also don’t want to make everything awkward between us while he’s still here.

    June 21, 2019 at 7:06 am in reply to: How to deal with an imminent mutually beneficial breakup? #300135
    Kristen
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    Dear Mark,

    It is true that we have not had enough time to really get to know each other. We do have very conflicting viewpoints on major political/social issues, which sometimes makes me question whether I can be with someone like him in the long run.

    Thank you so much for the advice on sitting with our feelings. It really gives me hope! I do feel better after spending some time trying to process all these emotions by myself (which is just a way of saying that I spent an hour crying while mindlessly binge-watching my favorite show).

    June 21, 2019 at 6:54 am in reply to: How to deal with an imminent mutually beneficial breakup? #300129
    Kristen
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    Dear Anita,

    Thank you for reminding that emotions are powerful. I think it finally dawned on me that I’ve always put my feelings second to rationality. And now my feelings are finally trying to catch up…

    And I do wish I had the courage to type that letter for him. I plan on keeping these feelings to myself until after he’s gone, and I’ll maybe tell him how I feel then over text.

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