I agree. I was texting just that one friend last time to check in and see if she was going to be able to come down because the situation was constantly changing. Texting other people won’t be an issue. We’ve actually dealt with those boundaries significantly since than and because of that episode. And I’m not actually worried about him doing anything like that again. I’m more concerned with letting my feelings go or at least not get the best of me this time. And I’m definitely not getting DRUNK. We’ve been to this particular place several times and this incident was the last visit. I’m thinking about changing up our “routine” at lot. Eating in different restaurants in different parts of town all the way to hanging out on the other side of the bar just to make it “different”.

Do you think that will help alleviate the worry and stress?