I see what you are saying.

Do you think that the fact that I have to dance around his feelings and be excessively kind and understanding is a sign that this is not healthy? I fear him walking away and never coming back if I blatantly say things that he does wrong. I have had to chase him down the street and beg him to come back after he stormed out of my house after confronting him abut how it bothers me when he doesn’t answer my texts or communicate with me. He said we have had this fight three times and he’s not going to keep doing this. I have to emphasize how much I trust him and I do not fear him being with other people and I do not get jealous. I just sincerely miss him and want him to ask me how I’m doing, to show some sign that he cares.

I’m not sure if my anxiety is screaming extra loud to me because of how much I love him, or if he is truly not trying hard enough. To feel something isn’t right because of texting seems so silly. However it hurts that I have told him it upsets me and he can’t seem to make the small sacrifice I am asking for