Dear maritzarivas:

You did all you could and there is nothing more you could have done to make this relationship work.

If only the people we deal with in our lives were their highest potentials! The world would be a far better place. In reality we have to see people as they are. I think it is better that this is over. There was much more heartache for you to come if this relationship continued.

I understand the pessimism you feel, the love you still feel for him.

Having a divorce under your belt and a failed 10 months relationship means that two men you were with were wrong for you on the long run. On a Relationship Resume, that wouldn’t look too bad. (A relationship resume… I wonder if it is a good idea to have one and what the format would be like. Of course, verifying it would be a big problem in more than one way)

Please do write more. You read as a very reasonable woman and I like your writing, being clear, realistic, kind. I do hope you feel better soon. I will look for another post from you in ten hours or so, Wednesday morning my time (WA. USA)

anita