Anita/tinywandrelust:
Tiny,Thank you for coming back and commenting on how you are doing.
Anita, thank you for reviewing the comments left by tiny.
I see my mirror reflection in what tiny has gone through. Although, I’m at the beginning of my journey to happiness and freedom, I’m still a little stuck in the mud, but everyday is getting better. I’m at almost a week of no contact and he is in the hovering stage. He has left close to thirty voicemails, basically pulling out all the stops to get me to respond.
Unfortunately, for him, I know his cycle. He only wants me to respond because this fuels him. He is not at all sorry for anything he claims to be, he is a sick individual and only wants to beat me down. Even though that sounds horrible for me to say, it actually feels really good to know that I have identified the cycle of his abuse and it just makes me want to stay away more. I will continue to stay no contact forever. He will not even get one single solitary ounce of a response from me. As far as I am concerned I no longer exist to this individual.
Thanks again for sharing, i hate that this has happened to you as well; however, it brings a little peace to my mind knowing that someone else has gone through this and are now very happy. Three words: LIFE GOES ON!