Dear unworthy (can you change your username? Unworthy you’re not!),

Not to be all simplistic, but life works best when we do things in the right order.

I wouldn’t see him (or anyone!) until your daughter is grown. I mean, yes, you can have a romantic life, but only during school hours LOL! My point is that kids don’t need this “Other” in the background (or foreground) stealing their parent’s attention. And the fact that he’d get mad about where you allocated your time ~ a bad sign and what message/s does that give your daughter?

My view is he had his chance with you ~ back in high school! It’s time for a relationship where you can be with a fellow grown up ~ who acts like an adult!

Best,

Inky