Dear Shirley:

Yes, Ilike your main goal in life being to be more at peace with yourself and

To stop comparing yourself to others.

Keep that in mind, Shirley. Do not compare, help others, be helped by others, focus the best you can, study as effectively as you can, but don’t compare. There will always be someone doing better, knowing more, having skill and talent you don’t- so if you keep comparing, you win with X but you will lose to Y. Winning will always be short lived and losing will be around the corner.

So take yourself out of competing (unless it is for fun, as in a game).

anita