Dear rebuild101:

From previous posts I understand that you suffer from anxiety, this ongoing excess fear that catches on to this thought or that. Your husband’s long ago interaction with his step sister is a very convenient thought for your roaming fear to grab itself to.

Dealing, or healing your anxiety is a good aim and it will take time and work. These are two separate issues. The husband’s interactions are in the long gone past, but it is your anxiety that is happening in the present.

anita