Dear JVR:

That would be fine with me. But if she reads this here, she will identify you in the new thread with the new name, wouldn’t she? Unless you are very careful.. but being too careful will take away from your authenticity. Thinking about it as I write this, I am all for your authenticity and doing what is courageous, standing up to fear, not submitting to it.

If I was you, and if I was able to handle it, I would say it like it is, not compromising myself so to accommodate the thought of her being here on tiny buddha.

So, your choice. If you change your name etc. and I do recognize you (may or may not), i will not mention it there, of course.

anita