Dear jenn12:

You wrote in your original post that Jean has everything she wants, but being socially awkward as you described it, means to me that she probably wants confidence and doesn’t have much of it, this is why she is awkward. When you are in her company, observe her, and Anthony, before you try to get along with them. You can learn a lot about people from watching and listening to them. Pay attention.

Learn who they are. I bet you are jealous of them simply because you don’t know them. You think you do, but you only know a few superficial information that led you to assume things that may not be true at all.

Over time, you may naturally form a connection with either one or both.

anita