Dear Andy:

Thank you for the update. I re-read your posts on this thread. You are a man of few words. Maybe therapy, good therapy will be a place for you to say more, to hear more, and say more.

Of what you wrote before, this held my attention the most: “I never give up on people. Whether it’s friends or family who have hurt me or done something bad, I will always be there for them and never lose hope with them.”

This is making me think that there are probably hurts that you experience with your family that you need to process. That you always being there for family members who hurt you is probably not the right thing for you, that you should be there for yourself, and not for the people who hurt you.

anita