Dear mulza:

At this point, if I was you, I would do some serious thinking before I proceed because you may be hurting him a lot if you are careless in the near future. If you’d like to do some of your thinking on this thread, please do.

You wrote that he needed more attention than you are comfortable with.

Question: what kind of attention did he need? Did he want to see you too often, for too long every time? What was the nature of the attention?

Another question: what kind of a personality type are you in regard to attention and closeness to others?

anita