Thanks Anita..Thank you so much for your concern..He still has not completely moved out, he just took one old air mattress with him yesterday morning when I was at work ( I thought he took more stuff) , he came back in the evening to get more stuff (just a little more).

Then this morning he texted me, first said I couldn’t sleep well, can i come back for a week then move out with all the furniture? I felt bad and said ok but then he again started talking mean – at that moment I said if you talk like this please no need to come. Then he got really upset and start saying more mean stuff followed by give me another chance, why am I doing this? You are throwing away, making a mistake and so on..Lets’ go out for a dinner and so on..I am not replying to his text anymore..

I know he is in pain especially he cannot control anymore and it’s difficult for him to handle that feeling but it’s not my responsibility- it’s his doing that he doesn’t want to open up with his friends and doesn’t believe in therapy (I gave those suggestions)..

please suggest what to do? I’m not very assertive person and i think i’m pushing him away but he always comes back with you are bad, wrong . give me another chance – makes me doubtful..

To be very honest, I DON’T WANT TO BE WITH HIM..

I don’t even know if he is coming tonight or not..