Dear Chelsea:

I am glad you made the resolution you made and that your life experience improved. This is my input regarding your grandmother’s input into your life, your life experience. I will be very straightforward, direct and say it like I see it. I would like it if you responded with your thoughts after you read my post:

To move on with your life, to continue to work on improving your life, to make your life a better and better life than what it has been, you have to not live with your grandmother. If you are living with her, you will need to move out. Once you are living away from her, you will need to either limit the contact with her to as little as needed and if in the most limited contact she is still damaging you, eliminate it all together, at least for a long while.

She is a block in your moving forward, and if you don’t remove this block kindly, respectfully, but remove it- you will not proceed forward.

anita