Hi dreaming,

I guess you are doing all the ‘right’ things which someone does when looking for a long term commitment. Do these guys state initially if they too are interested in long term relationships? Once they disappear have you considered asking any of them the reason, just the way you have put it across here, letting them know clearly that you are willing to break it off but you need to know what didn’t work out. Not sure if they would give an honest answer but just wondering if you’ve given this a try. I was just wondering if the “we need to talk” phase ever happens with these disappearing men because it’s not fair for you and more so because of the repetitive pattern.

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