Dear ican2:

You are pretty young. And I believe you can, too (“ican2) be in a loving committed relationship. The beliefs you have of course, are not and will not help in the quest of a loving committed relationship.

Please tell me more about the nature of the close relationship with your mother: is it like girlfriends relationship where you share everything with each other, like best friends?

(Will be back in a few hours to read and reply to your answer, if you answer.)

anita