Hi Janine,

Sadly, it is possible not to have time for someone you love. Of course, if it’s a real excuse (military service, doctor, mom of five) you “get” that. If you’re angry about it, you must be suspecting that someone doesn’t care as much as they claim. Or, you feel guilty for not seeing someone.

Let go of your “shoulds” and you will be much happier.

If it bothers you, make a point of seeing people. Every month and a half I FORCE myself to have people over and entertain. I am always happier when I do this afterwards. Yet I am a rabid introvert. Maybe you or your loved ones are too??

Best,

Inky