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Dear xenopustex:
The reason why “getting a woman to smile back invokes almost a feeling of well being” because that is what we try to do since we are babies, make the one handling us, usually the mother (a woman) to smile back at us. That gives the baby a feeling of well being. When the mother smiles back at the baby, that means she is going to take good care of the baby and that means well being.
We don’t outgrow this. As a matter of fact, the least we had of that smile, the more we want it. You tried your best to not need it, to survive without it. This is obviously possible but the cost is lack of well being.
So inside the tough xenopustex is a boy still needing a smile, a love back from a woman.
Good thing, it is possible for you!
anita