Dear sehreen:

You feel very attached to a young man whom you didn’t meet yet. You communicated online for years, but never met. He wrote to you that he has romantic feelings for you. You deleted him because of his revelation but then developed such feelings for him. But you didn’t tell him of those romantic feelings for him, only a guilt that you felt about him.

Is there a possibility for you to meet him in person: do you live in different countries or continents?

what was your guilt about and do you still feel guilty? Tell me about the guilt.

And how is your life other than the online communication with this guy: at 19, do you attend college/ work/ live with your parents? Any social life?

anita