Hi Kelsi,

thanks for sharing your story with me.
I am very sorry to hear that and hope you will figure something out and feel better soon!

No, you are absolutely right. He does act like my age most of the time, is in a band, is childish sometimes. But when it comes to the future he is ready to settle down. He also isnt interested in going out, meeting new people. He´d rather just spend time with me. But I don´t want that. Of course its nice every once in a while. But I want a social life outside my relationship. Since I moved I´m having trouble meeting people. I pretty much know family friends and my ex´s friends. That´s it.

And yes, I have been saying that to myself a lot lately. Love is strong, but only when it comes from both sides.
And as you said, I don´t want to go through that again and having to hurt him a second time.
I am a mostly logical thinker when it comes to relationships (even though i sometimes wish i wasnt.. lol), so I know that one day i will be at the same point again.

But thank you so much for your advice!

And good luck with the trouble you are going through! Sending hugs 🙂