Dear Nina Sakura:

I woke up this morning very early with time on my hands. As I read your new thread I went back in history to threads you started in the past (first was 8 months ago) and replies you posted on others’ threads. I do like your replies to others. I found this one that applies to your current thread: “when you feel suspicious, ask yourself these questions –Does P love me?…Has he ever harmed me? Has he ever intentionally hurt me?
Is my relationship with P like that with my parents?”

My goodness, you wrote the last line that I will ask you about. First to your question: Is insecurity normal?” Notice who it is you are asking to tell you if this or that is normal: who has the authority to determine Normal? If normal means common then the answer is definitely: yes, insecurity is very common.

Back to your reply that I quoted, further worded by me: is there a connection between your insecurity with this man and the relationship between your parents?

anita