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Hello once again my friends!
I would like to share with you some updates on this topic!
Your advice really helped me see where i was wrong concerning the issue with my ex girlfriend. The past 6 months have been hard form me as i was trying to get back on my feet. In my journey i realized a a lot about myself and the way i deal with other people. I indeed was selfish but i also had hidden issues that needed to be resolved.
I also met another wonderful girl who stood by me all the way. One month ago, we decided to get into a relationship. She knows all about me and my ex(es) but gave us a chance. Last week, i posted a pic on my fb account and 2 days later i got a pot of red flowers with a card writing ‘You don’t have to know who i am. I just wanted to say i am sorry. sorry.’
I told my gf and we tried to figure out who this girl was. I also posted on fb ‘seeking the person behind the anonymous sorry:)’
A day later i got an email writing ‘i am sorry. There is no meaning finding out who the girl who says sorry is etc etc”
I opened it but did not actually read it. I thought that saying sorry anonymously was immature.
My gf suggested that (if it is my ex indeed) i should contact her so to resolve past unanswered questions. I believe that it is my ex just saying i am sorry for everything, now that i have finally moved on. My friends say that she wouldn’t have sent flowers if she didn’t want something…
I didn’t want to dig into this so to protect my new girl, as it is not right for both of us. That’s why i deleted the email. But this whole thing made me think.
What is your opinion…? Thank you!