I completely relate to your story at least from what you wrote. It’s like you’re talking about me. He is right. I’m not saying he’s perfect, I am saying he is right and I tell you that from the bottom of my heart because I just realized the impact this has on our relationship. You have to realize it now, because if not you’ll eventually be with someone else and this cycle will repeat over and over until you understand that you’re doing something wrong. You can’t be with someone who criticizes everything you do, everything you say, everything about yourself. And imagine how this feels like when it comes from the person you really love and loves you back. I won’t go into details about why we’re like that, ’cause I don’t know and it doesn’t really matter right now. You absolutely must understand, I mean REALLY UNDERSTAND why you need to stop this. It took me a really long time to understand. For now I really understand and hope I won’t fall back in my pattern of fear… ’cause that’s what it is at the roots. Only fear. Every time you exaggerated something, overreacted about something small and you two started to fight he felt negative emotions in his heart. Every single time. These added in his heart and now he feels there are too many negative emotions. He can’t relax with you, ’cause you won’t relax and just be and enjoy his presence. Your mind would find something wrong in his every action and then you would feel something negative (fear) and would react. And maybe after some time you would realize you really overreacted and it was nothing. You can’t erase anything he felt. You have to change for yourself. It’s not like he cheats on you or lies to you or hides things from you. He doesn’t do anything like that, right? It’s just your fear and lack of trust in general and overthinking and insecurities. When you will have real facts you can act like that. Learn to trust, learn to love and understand he is his own person. Just like you he has feelings and thoughts and wishes and etc. The thing is… even if he would be perfect, you’d still find something that’s not right or you’d still always wait for the ‘bad thing’ to happen. I’m waiting for your reply!