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July 11, 2016 at 6:08 pm
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keine
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I agree with Anita. Somewhere along the line “John” learned that standing up for himself and expressing his own desires and needs was “bad” and would earn the wrath (or worse, the emotional distance) of those close to him.
Couples therapy would do you both a world of good. John needs to learn to communicate to you (and the rest of the world) what he needs and wants.
I hope you two can work through these issues and be happy together.