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Hi analisa,
I don’t want you to have ANY guilt for your son’s death. None. Nada. Zip. Please, please don’t feel guilty!!
1. Sage was an adult. An adult makes the decision when and if they will or should go to the ER. He at the time, didn’t see a need to go in.
2. You were away from him. His friend called I’m assuming in a “Sage is sick/what should I do” call. He himself had to refer to #1 above.
3. You have had several years of this. At 19 our children have to start to take care of themselves to a degree.
4. No one could predict he would die that night.
My friend’s son died that way, and she was on the property!! The boys had just raided the fridge an hour before he died in his sleep. It was 3 AM. Who knew?? Everyone sleeps at some point. Even doctors. Even you. You cannot predict!!
I am so sorry!!
May you have Peace and Healing.
Blessings,
Inky