Anita,

Yes!!! You are spot on!! That’s exactly what happened… and I foolishly gave in, since I didn’t want to lose her ever…. And I have a history of being submissive right from my childhood being bought up by very strict father… A DICTATOR… I was used to just accept the commands and demands made from me and complete them either to please people or to have them in my life fearing losing them.. and I guess that’s what landed me up here…:( I should’ve drawn my boundaries in the earlier stages itself… I feel very ashamed, as to why I allowed everyone to take a ride on me that too my most loved ones…Not sure…feeling so confused either to let go or just hold on to it a bit.. to see how things are working out…